Welcome to part 6 of a 10 part series:
How to get smarter: A guide to critical thinking, cognitive biases, and logical fallacies
In this article we’re talking:
“The two pillars of ‘political correctness’ are, a) willful ignorance, and b) a steadfast refusal to face the truth.” – George MacDonald Fraser
Confession: I hate political correctness and “PC” culture.
Contrary to popular opinion, political correctness isn’t just:
“The avoidance of forms of expression or action that are perceived to exclude, marginalize, or insult groups of people who are socially disadvantaged or discriminated against” – Oxford Dictionary
It’s really about dishonesty and fakeness and the policing of language and thought.
The urban dictionary’s definitions are a lot closer to the mark:
“A method of controlling and dictating public speech and thought.”
“A powerful form of censorship.”
“A way that we speak in America so we don’t offend whining pussies.”
“Political correctness is by definition dishonest and is, I believe, the most insidious doctrine to plague the Western world since those abominable soul mates communism and fascism with which it has more in common than its dupes seem to realise. It cannot face truth, it rejects what is, simply because what is does not suit what the politically correct thinking ought to be.” – George MacDonald Fraser
The problem with political correctness
Here’s the problem with political correctness:
It forces you to deny reality.
It silences people and stifles debate.
It’s anti-free speech.
It prevents any criticism of:
- Black people or minorities – because that would be “racist”
- Gays and transgenders – because that would be “homophobic” and/or “transphobic”
- Muslims – because that would make you a “bigot” and “islamophobic”
- Women – because that would be “misogynistic” and “sexist”
Even if that criticism is 100% justified.
In fact, it seems that the only people it’s okay to criticize and be racist and sexist towards is white men.
Except according to some:
- It’s impossible to be racist towards a white person
- It’s impossible to be sexist towards a man
The SJW PC crowd act as if feelings were more important than facts (they’re not) and the truth shouldn’t be spoken if it might potentially offend someone.
Here’s the problem with that:
- These days: Everyone is offended by everything. We’re living in an age of outrage. If no one is allowed to say anything that could possibly be offensive to another human being – then no one can say anything e.g. some people will get offended if you say “good morning”
- Just because someone is “offended” by something – that doesn’t mean they’re right, or that other people should have to monitor their language or change the way they speak or walk on eggshells around them
“When people say they’re offended, just cause you’re offended, doesn’t mean you’re right. Offense is about feelings, and feelings are personal. Some people are offended by equality. So what?” – Ricky Gervais
“When people have invested their identities into clichés, the only counter argument they have is ‘being offended’.” – Stefan Molyneux
Spiritual teacher Wayne Dyer (RIP) was 100% right when he said:
“Do you know that most people I meet, spend their lives looking for occasions to be offended. They’re actually hoping that they can find some reason to be offended. And there’s no shortage of reasons. They’re out there everywhere. The way this person dressed. What this person said. Someone used language that they didn’t like. Someone doesn’t share the same customs that you share.” – Wayne Dyer
When I first heard Wayne say that I didn’t believe him. I thought he was exaggerating to make a point. But I’ve come to realize that he’s 100% right.
There are lots of people out there actively looking for reasons to be offended.
People who love to get offended and upset by everything.
Professional victims who love to complain and play the victim card.
Who gets to decide what’s “politically correct” or “offensive” anyway?
I’ve noticed that the majority of these hypersensitive PC SJW’s who are quick to denounce any criticism of Muslims or the Muslim faith, seem to have no problem attacking Christians or Christianity or using the words “Jesus Christ” as a curse word with no consideration as to how that might make Christians feel. Nor do they seem to have any problem attacking Mormonism, Scientology, or any other religion.
See this raises an important point: political correctness isn’t really about being polite and respectful towards others, it’s really just about policing any kind of language and thought that liberals don’t like, and the redefining of words to suit the liberal agenda.
That’s why some things are “PC” and others aren’t.
That’s why it’s okay to criticize Christians – but not Muslims.
That’s why it’s okay to criticize heterosexuals – but not homosexuals.
That’s why it’s okay to criticize white people – but not black people.
That’s why it’s okay to criticize men – but not women.
Oh I forgot: There’s no such thing as a “man” or a “woman”. How silly of me.
Also: Why can’t a Christian pastor or Catholic priest refuse to marry homosexuals if it goes against their religion?
Will Islamic religious leaders also be forced into marrying homosexuals?
I don’t think so.
Question: If SJW’s and the PC police are so offended by offensive language, racism and sexism, why aren’t they attacking rappers like Nicki Minaj and Snoop Dogg who can’t stop using words like “nigger”, “bitch” and “ho”?
Answer: Because they’re hypocritical cowards with double standards who won’t hesitate to turn a blind eye to bullshit the second it suits them to do so.
No, the PC police need to attack the real culprits, the biggest racists and sexists, people like Justin Timberlake, Matt Damon and the Dalai Lama.
Maori make up 14.6% of New Zealand’s population yet they make up 51% of it’s prison population.
More than 50% of male prison inmates are Maori.
More than 58% of female prison inmates are Maori.
New Zealand also has the highest rate of domestic violence in the world, with one in three women and 42% of Maori women experiencing physical and/or sexual violence from a partner in their lifetime, and at least 80% of crimes aren’t reported to the police.
But does the average Kiwi or the NZ media talk about Maori crime and violence? No. Maybe only behind closed doors. Why? Because it’s not politically correct. Even though almost every Kiwi has seen and/or experienced Maori violence, no one wants to talk about it because it’s not politically correct and no one wants to be called a “racist”.
This is the problem with PC culture: Instead of encouraging an honest examination of the facts, it simply takes a totalitarian attitude and censors any opinion it doesn’t like which might “offend” and calls it “racism”, “sexism” or “hate speech”.
Facebook censors posts.
Google censors searches.
Twitter censors tweets.
YouTube censors videos.
Political correctness is an insidious cancer which silences people and forces them to deny reality, and it also introduces a lot of bullshit words and concepts:
PC culture is so out of control on US college campuses that even legendary comedians like Jerry Seinfeld, Chris Rock, John Cleese etc. refuse to play because too many college kids can’t take a joke. Either that or they think they can tell Jerry Seinfeld how to be funny
“There’s a creepy PC thing out there that really bothers me.” – Jerry Seinfeld
“Our college campuses have become places where people are afraid of ideas. They think they know the truth and everything they need to know, about race, about gender, about rape, about you name it. They don’t want to hear opposing points of view. Opposing points of view just offend them. They want to be kept safe from ideas they disagree with. People today when they enter college want to leave with exactly the same ideas as when they entered. They do not want their ideas to be challenged.” – Alan Dershowitz, Harvard Law Professor
This is what I hate most about political correctness: In theory it’s a good thing, I don’t believe anyone should intentionally be cruel, offensive, rude, racist, sexist etc. and I know there are lots of assholes, bitches, bigots, racists, sexists, psychopaths, sociopaths, thugs etc. out there who say and do things to provoke and hurt people.
But there are also a lot of people out there who are far too sensitive, who get offended by every little thing, who use words like “bigot”, “fascist”, “racist”, “sexist”, “homophobe”, “Nazi” etc. as a weapon to censor and silence anyone they disagree with, or anything they don’t like.
Obviously I’m not the only one who feels this way. Millions of people do.
According to a 2016 Angus Reid Institute survey, 76% per cent of Canadians (widely regarded as the friendliest people in the world) think political correctness has gone too far, as do the majority of Americans, English, Australians and New Zealanders. They’re not wrong.
In fact, I think the main reason shows like Family Guy and South Park are so popular is precisely because they’re so politically incorrect. I also think that’s one of the main reasons Donald Trump got into the White House. People are just sick and tired of PC bullshit.
Political incorrect truths
- There are only 2 genders. Male and female. Deal with it.
- Children growing up in 2 parent families do better
- Everyone is biased towards their own race
- Fat is not healthy – or sexy
- Feminists are often just angry man haters who engage in misandry
- Height matters
- Looks matter
- Men and women are not equal. They are different. Men have strengths women don’t have. Women have strengths men don’t have. Duh.
- Islam is not a religion of peace
- Most African countries are shit holes (not just Haiti)
- Some countries and cultures are objectively better than others
Free Speech vs Political Correctness
In summary: We can either have free speech or political correctness – but not both.
No culture, gender, group, ideology, race, religion, tradition etc. should be off limits or protected from criticism if/when it’s in the wrong.
The truth doesn’t need defending. Wrong is wrong. No matter who says or does it.
You maybe forced to speak in a politically correct way in your school or in your workplace, but don’t let the PC thought police or SJW’s censor your thinking, and tell you what you can and can’t think or what’s “appropriate”.
If you’re thinking: “I want to live in a world with free speech – but not hate speech”, let me ask you something: If normal words like: “boy”, “girl”, “man”, “woman”, “ladies”, “gentleman”, “mother”, “father” etc. are now considered “offensive” and “politically incorrect” what words are going to be offensive next?
Where do we draw the line?
SJW’s are some of the biggest hypocrites on earth:
They want to be heard – but they don’t want to listen.
They talk about tolerance and respect – yet they have zero tolerance or respect for anyone that disagrees with them.
They demand “safe spaces” and “trigger warnings”, yet they have no problem yelling, screaming, swearing, protesting, rioting, destroying property and committing acts of violence etc. the moment they don’t get their own way.
Why should a small group of constantly unhappy people who love to bitch and moan and complain about everything, be able to tell the rest of the world what they can and can’t say?
To the constantly offended I say this:
Who cares if you’re offended? Fuck your feelings. Get over yourself.
Just because you’re offended that doesn’t mean you’re right.
I’ve heard it said: “I’d rather be correct than politically correct”
And: “Being politically correct doesn’t make you correct”
OK, let’s lighten things up a bit…
“If everyone is thinking alike then somebody isn’t thinking.” – George S. Patton
What is Groupthink?
“Groupthink is a psychological phenomenon that occurs within a group of people in which the desire for harmony or conformity in the group results in an irrational or dysfunctional decision-making outcome. Group members try to minimize conflict and reach a consensus decision without critical evaluation of alternative viewpoints by actively suppressing dissenting viewpoints, and by isolating themselves from outside influences.” – Wikipedia
In other words: Groupthink is when people in a group seek consensus and unanimity, even if it results in an irrational decision being made.
What causes Groupthink?
- When a dominant leader, manager, or personality of a group surrounds themselves with “yes men”
- When the leader, manager, or members of the group, is quick to shut down any contrary opinions, dissent, or negative feedback
- When peer pressure from either the leader of a group, or from within the group itself, forces people to come to a certain consensus, even if it’s a false consensus
- When political correctness forces self-censorship and the suppression of ideas and opinions that are controversial and “un-PC” and outside of the status quo
- The illusion of unanimity: Because everyone in the group is silent and no one in the group is speaking up and saying anything, everyone assumes that everyone else in the group agrees and feels the same way
- When someone disagrees with the consensus, or the majority, or just isn’t sure, stays silent instead of asking a ‘silly’ question, or voicing what might be an unpopular opinion, in order to avoid conflict, or for fear of disapproval or judgement or being ostracized by the group
- When people go along to get along, so as to avoid conflict, or to end the meeting because they don’t believe that their ideas will be taken seriously
- When people are closed minded to other alternatives and think there is only one way
- When differences are dismissed from outsiders and rationalized “You just think that way because you’re a (insert group or ideology)”
- When people in the group ignore their gut feelings that something might be wrong, and ignore any obvious dangers and warning signs
- When a group of people who think alike, spend all of their time in echo chambers and only talk, listen, and spend time with people who agree with them and think like them
- Let’s be honest: Most people are followers who are too lazy to think for themselves and will simply follow the crowd and believe whatever everyone else does
Groupthink is a major problem. You see it everywhere: In schools, social circles, the corporate world, the military, and especially in political parties and religions.
It’s amazing how common Groupthink and conformity is:
Soloman Asch’s Conformity Experiments in 1951 – people will deny their own eyes:
How to avoid Groupthink
How do you avoid Groupthink?
- If you are the leader of the group:
- Hire and surround yourself with smart people who think differently than you
- Let everyone know it’s okay to disagree, and to have other opinions, perspectives and ideas. There are no bad ideas, stupid questions (the only stupid question is the one you don’t ask) or “wrong” perspectives
- Don’t share what you think until everyone else has first shared their opinions so as not to influence the group
- Don’t criticize the ideas of people you don’t agree with and don’t shoot them down for having a different opinion. You want as many ideas, opinions, and perspectives on the table as possible
- Encourage debate and disagreement, and if no one is disagreeing, get one person to play devils advocate to provoke debate or to test the strength of the argument
- Have a structured debate. Randomly assign different team members to argue opposing points of view.
- If everyone is in agreement, find out why they agree, and what evidence they have for their opinions. How did they come to that conclusion? What reasons do they have for that belief?
- Some people are shy and won’t speak up or participate – put them on the spot and ask them what they think
- Encourage anonymous suggestions
- Think for yourself – don’t just follow the crowd and think and do what everyone else does
- Get out of your echo chamber and consciously seek out arguments from people who disagree with you, especially experts, and find out why they disagree with you
- Ask people you admire and respect who are smarter and more experienced than you to attack/criticize/review your plans
- Do your homework and research the history of people who’ve tried your idea and failed – and find out why they’ve failed, and become aware of the consequences if you’re wrong
Stop thinking what everyone thinks.
Stop believing what everyone believes.
Think for yourself. You have a brain so use it.
“Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it’s time to pause and reflect.” – Mark Twain
“It’s better to walk alone, than with the crowd going in the wrong direction.” – Diane Grant
“The fact that millions of people share the same vices does not make these vices virtues, the fact that they share so many errors does not make the errors to be truths, and the fact that millions of people share the same form of mental pathology does not make these people sane.” – Erich Fromm, The Sane Society
“Think for yourself. Unplug yourself from follow-the-follower groupthink, and virtually ignore what everyone else in your industry is saying (except the ones everyone agrees is crazy). Do your own research, draw your own conclusions, set your own course, and stick to your guns. When you’re just starting out, people will tell you you’re wrong. After you’ve blown past them, they’ll tell you you’re crazy. A few years after that, they’ll (privately) ask you to mentor them.” – Steve Pavlina
“People who think with their epidermis or their genitalia or their clan are the problem. If I would not vote against someone on the grounds of ‘race’ or ‘gender’ alone, then by the exact same token I would not cast a vote in his or her favor for the identical reason.” – Christopher Hitchens
Similar to Groupthink is tribalism, which is when people have loyalty to their country, culture, gender, group, political party, race, religion etc. above all else no matter what.
You see this all the time.
Catholic priests covering up the molestation and sexual abuse of children when it’s done by other priests.
Church (tribe) first – morals second.
Christians, Jews, Muslims etc. standing up for people in their religion – even when they know they’re in the wrong – simply because they belong to the same religion.
Women standing up for other women in an argument with a man – even when they know they’re in the wrong – simply because they’re women.
Their allegiance is to the tribe – not to the truth.
Tribalism is an “us vs them”, we are the “good guys” and they are the “bad guys” mentality. It’s a primitive shit brained black and white type of thinking that only leads to conflict, fighting, racism, sexism, prejudice and war.
I’ll be honest, personally I’ve never really understood tribalism.
My loyalty is to the truth. To the facts. To what’s right. To what I consider “the best”.
I wouldn’t take the side of my family, friends, girlfriend, parents etc. if I thought they were in the wrong – and I’m an extremely loyal person. That doesn’t mean that I would take the side of the stranger and disagree with them in public if I thought they would lose face, but it does mean that I would definitely say to my friend/girlfriend/parent etc. in private that I thought the other person was right.
Tribalism seems to be far too common in American politics and race relations. There are far too many people sticking up for their own gender, race, religion, political party etc. even when they know they’re wrong – simply because that person, party, group etc. is part of their tribe.
Sam Harris perfectly sums up the problems with tribalism and identity politics in this video:
The bottom line is:
You will either have an allegiance to your tribe or to the truth. You cannot have both.
You maybe part of a tribe (almost everyone is) but don’t let the tribe do your thinking for you, and don’t take the side of your tribe over the truth.
Think for yourself.
“I think tribalism is a mental prison…and pride of identity coupled with arrogance is one of the leading factors that limit one’s ability to abandon it.” – Duop Chak Wuol
“I think the biggest threat to America is tribalism. I think that tribalism has broken out on the left and the right. People don’t seem to care about the truth anymore, they seem to care about whether it helps my side or it helps your side, and that is really, really, dangerous, because then we can no longer have a conversation. If we can’t agree on a common basis of facts, we can’t have a conversation in the first place, if you’re just going to assume that I’m evil on the basis of my political perspective, then we can’t have a conversation.” – Ben Shapiro
The Bandwagon effect
“Men, it has been well said, think in herds; it will be seen that they go mad in herds, while they only recover their senses slowly, one by one.” – Charles Mackay,
You should also be aware of the bandwagon effect.
The bandwagon effect in a nutshell:
The more people do something – the more other people will do it too.
It’s why people will stand in line for a crowded restaurant instead of going to an empty one.
It’s why if “everyone” is talking about a movie, we’ll likely check it out too.
The bandwagon effect is the reason for stock market and housing bubbles and trends.
Why the bandwagon effect works
Most people aren’t leaders – they’re followers.
Most people are sheep – they love to conform and “fit in”.
Most people have a desire to “keep up with the Joneses”
FOMO: Fear Of Missing Out.
Examples of the bandwagon effect
- People that don’t support an athlete or sports team – until they make the playoffs
- People that don’t support a political candidate – until everyone else starts supporting them e.g. Bernie Sanders
- If there is a long line of people waiting in line for a restaurant, even more people will get in the line and start waiting
- The more reviews a product or service has on Amazon, Booking.com, TripAdvisor, Yelp! etc. the more people will buy it
Beware of the bandwagon effect
The bandwagon effect can (and is) used against you…
Advertisers and marketers will often try to convince you to buy their product by trying to make you believe that “everyone else” has their product, or that people are lining up to buy it, and you should too. This is known as social proof.
Clickbait bloggers and journalists try to get us to read their articles by telling us that “Twitter” is angry (Translation: 5 people complained about something)
Why you shouldn’t follow the crowd
“Don’t follow the crowd, let the crowd follow you.” Margaret Thatcher
Most people aren’t happy.
Most people aren’t smart.
Most people aren’t successful.
Most people are examples of what not to do.
Following the crowd kills your creativity, because you’re forced to dumb yourself down in order to fit in, in order to do what everyone else is doing.
“It’s better to walk alone than with a crowd going in the wrong direction.” – Gandhi
“The dumbest reason in the world to buy a stock is because it’s going up.” – Warren Buffett
“The person who follows the crowd will usually go no further than the crowd. The person who walks alone is likely to find himself in places no one has ever seen before.“ – Albert Einstein
Maori image credit: Jose Gil / Shutterstock.com
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